Fatherhood Collaborative of San Mateo County
Tuesday, September 07, 2010

Resources

Legal Resources

While the Fatherhood Collaborative does not provide legal services, we are aware of a number of legal resources that might be helpful, especially in family law matters. We are including contact information for local resources and, in some cases, particularly helpful websites. 

 

Family Law Facilitator

San Mateo Superior Court

400 County Center, 2nd Floor

Redwood City

Tel:  650-363-4590 


 

Lawyer Referral Service of the S.M. County Bar Association – 650-369-4149

Palo Alto Area Bar Association Lawyer Referral Service – 650-326-8322

Legal Aid Society of San Mateo –650- 558-0915

Bay Area Legal - Legal Assistance Line (LAL): 650- 472-2666

 

 
(This is an abbreviated version of the listing -- the full listing is located at the Law Library)
San Mateo County Law Library

710 Hamilton Street

Redwood City, CA 94063

  

Helpful websites

www.lawhelpcalifornia.org

http://www.sanmateocourt.org/ -- click on Self-Help Center

http://www.sanmateocourt.org/fcs/index.html -- Family Court Services (includes a video)

 

Other Legal Resources (non family law)

Community Legal Services of East Palo Alto - 650-326-6440

 

Stanford Law Clinic (East Palo Alto) - 650-475-0560

 

San Mateo County Law Library

710 Hamilton Street,

Redwood City, CA 94063

650- 363-4913

http://www.smcll.org/about.html

 

 

Parenting Classes for Dads (and Moms and Other Caregivers)

In addition to questions about legal services, we often get requests for information about parenting classes. Recognizing that many San Mateo fathers (and their partners) may find it difficult to get to parenting classes during the day, and some may have limited resources to pay for them, we have researched organizations that provide evening and weekend parenting classes without charge, or on a sliding scale.  

Listed below are the names of organizations that offer night and/or weekend parenting classes, free of charge, or on a sliding scale. We include, where available, a class title, agency name, website, and contact information, so you can call and find out what classes are being offered and when. Many of these organizations offer more than one class, and not all are offered all the time.
   
We recognize this list may be very incomplete. If you offer a class, or know of an organization we haven’t listed, please let us know.
 
We hope this is helpful.
 
New! Free Parenting Classes at the San Mateo County Library for 2010
Click here for a listing of classes and locations. 
 
 
Class:  Compadres Para un Nuevo Camino (see flyer in English or Spanish)
Agency: Family Service Agency of San Mateo County
Contact:  Meghan Murphy 650-403-4300 x 4544
 
Class:        Positive Parenting
Agency:     Daly City Youth Health Center
Website:    www.dalycityyouth.org
Contact:     Jane T. Hipe – 650-985-7018
 
Class:        Setting Healthy Limits
Agency:     Our Second Home
Website:    www.oursecondhome.org
Contact:     Sharon Issurdatt – 650-301-3303
 
Agency:     Prenatal to Three (San Mateo Health Department)
Website:    none
Contact:     Kristine Averilla – 650-573-2629
 
Class:        Raising Teenagers in the 2000’s
Agency:     Dept of Mental Health and San Mateo Sheriff’s Office
Website:    none
Contact:     Kimberly Kang – 650-312-5361
 
Class:        Parent Child Connection (for foster and kinship parents)
Agency:     Help One Child
Website:    www.helponechild.org
Contact:     Judy Holmes – 650-917-1209
 
Class:        (for Spanish speakers)
Agency:     Samaritan House
Website:    www.samaritanhouse.com
Contact:     Leticia Smiell – 650-347-3648 x 12
 
Class:        “Effective Black Parenting” (for families)
Class:         Reclaiming Fatherhood Groups (for fathers only)
Agency:     Prenatal Advantage Black Infant Health Project
(San Mateo Health Department)
Website:    www.smhealth.org/bih
Contact:    650-363-7850
 
Class:     Parenting Young Children Through Separation & Divorce and many other parenting classes
Agency:  Parents Place (A Program of Jewish Family & Children's Services)
contact:  650-931-1840 (San Mateo) or 650-688-3040 (Palo Alto)
 
ALSO, click here for the Parenting Education Resource List, from the San Mateo County Human Services Agency, organized by geographical region.
 
Articles, Research and Tips 

From time to time we find articles or publications, and research studies, with valuable advice, suggestions or insights for dads, and we provide links to them here.  Check back from time to time to find out what's new. 

Engaging Fathers 2010 Conference Presentations:

     Involving Dads -- Philip Cowan, Ph.D., and Carolyn Cowan, Ph.D. -- morning keynote

     Fathers Who've Never Had Dads -- Carlos Bravo, MA

     Attachment Theory for Fathers -- Natalia Estassi, Ph.D.

Scholarly Research Study -- a recent study on the effects of father involvement on children's developmental outcomes.
 
President Obama's Letter to his Daughters -- published in Parade Magazine, January 2009.
 
President Elect Obama's Fathers' Day speech -- read the speech urging black fathers to be more engaged in raising their children.
 

So You Want to be More Involved -- handy tips from the experts about ways to be involved with your children, from Infants & Toddlers through High School & College.  

Ways to be Involved in Parenting -- A comprehensive list of ways to show your interest and to stay involved with your kids -- including many things you already do, but didn't think of as 'parenting'. 
 

Tips for Dads -- Helpful hints for fathers from the Department of Health & Human Services.

Just for Dad -- The March of Dimes has information just for Dads.

Each of our collaborating agencies provides specialized services, resources and information for fathers. Please see the WHO WE ARE page for links to those agencies.

Other resources that might be helpful for fathers include: 

 

Santa Clara County Resources:

Foundation of Family Values
Location: 1 West Campbell Ave. Suite J66N
Phone: (408) 866-6686
Email: fatherssupport@fofv.org
http://www.fofv.org

Includes a fathers support group that meets Tuesday nights at 7-9pm at the Campbell Community center in Campbell along with counseling services.

Web-based Resources:

Administration for Children and Families http://www.acf.dhhs.gov
At Home Dads http://slowlane.com
Center for Family Policy & Practice http://www.cffpp.org
Center for Law and Social Policy http://www.clasp.org
Children’s Rights Council http://www.gocrc.com/
Dads & Daughters http://www.Dadsanddaughters.org
Dads Rights http://www.dadsrights.org/
Fathers.com http://www.fathers.com/
Fathers & Families http://www.fathersandfamilies.org
Fathers Forum Online http://www.fathersforum.com
Fatherhood Foundation http://www.fathersonline.org/
Fatherhood Project (Families and Work Institute) http://www.familiesandwork.org/fatherhood/
HandsNet http://www.handsnet.org
National Congress for Fathers & Children http://www.ncfc.net/ncfc/
National Fatherhood Initiative http://www.fatherhood.org
National Fathers’ Network http://www.fathersnetwork.org/
National Men’s Resource Center http://www.menstuff.org
ManKind Project http://www.mkp.org
Minnesota Fathers & Families Network http://www.mnfathers.org/

Promoting Responsible Fatherhood       

Resource Center for Fathers & Families

http://fatherhood.hhs.gov/index.shtml 

http://www.resourcesforfathers.org/

 

If you are aware of an organization that should be listed here, click here to send us an email.

Note: The Fatherhood Collaborative does not endorse the content of any of the sites listed above. They are collected for the sole purpose of helping those who are in need of more diverse information or resources than those contained on the FC site.