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Homework and School Achievement
As homework expectations have increased for all school-aged children, getting homework done has become an area of conflict and concern for many families. This workshop will explore the parent's role with homework, how and when to help, and what to do when problems arise.

Positive Discipline: Building Self-Esteem
Positive discipline is an approach that helps children develop critical skills as well as positive feelings about themselves. The techniques for doing this vary with the child's developmental skills. In this workshop we will explore how to set age appropriate discipline techniques that aim to preserve and boost self-esteem and effectively guide children. Discussion includes ways to improve communication, cooperation, and altruistic behavior. Based on the work of Dr. Jane Nelsen.

Breaking the Cycle of Bullying: Creating a Caring School and Involved Community
Bullying is not about typical childhood behaviors such as sibling rivalry or one-on-one fighting between siblings and peers. It is not about impulsive, spontaneous aggression with an intended target. Bullying can have a powerful and lasting effect on the bully, the bullied, and the bystander. In this workshop parents will learn to identify what bullying is, how and when to intervene, and how you and your child can create a safe school community.

Turning No into Yes-Encouraging Cooperative Behavior in Children
Young children are expected to test, but hearing "no" can be frustrating and exhausting. Turning 'no' into 'yes' requires patience, consistency, and creativity. Learn strategies for positive redirection and limit-setting that maintains a positive relationship.

Help! I'm Stressed
This workshop explores the impact of stress on our families, and ourselves and offers practical ideas to help build resiliency during difficult times. Explores many parental coping strategies for dealing with and managing stress.

Raising Resilient Children
Something about raising children has changed in today’s fast-paced world. Parents are under continuous pressure to plan, enrich, and do this important job the one, precisely right way. This can create stress on today’s families. This workshop will focus on the challenges of raising children in today’s “hurry up” world. We will discuss strategies for raising resilient and healthy children, and how parents can establish healthy family schedules and find the right balance for their families.

Netiquette - Teaching Students How to Behave Positively in Cyberspace
Cyberspace is a very real locale without the rules of civilization as expected in "real space." On the internet, children and teens feel that anything goes, what they say online stays online, and that rude language is ok because everyone does it. Learn how children and teens communicate online and gain strategies to help them develop ethical and kind online behavior.

Beyond Sibling Rivalry: Keeping the Peace
In this workshop parents will discover the reasons for sibling quarrels and learn techniques to help children learn to minimize and resolve conflicts. Learn when and how to become a successful mediator and help your children develop the skills they need to become cooperative, caring, and compassionate.

I’m Talking But They’re Not Listening: Communicating With Children
Learn how to practice positive speaking and new ways to listen to encourage children to “hear” us when we speak. Learn what to do when children are not following directions and understanding limits.

Encouraging Responsibility
Review reasonable expectations of children at different ages regarding responsibility. Parents will identify the components of responsible behaviors and explore ways to teach your child the skills needed to be a responsible person.

Bye-Bye Diapers: Toilet Learning
Like many lessons in life, learning to use the toilet is not one that we can really teach children, but there are ways that we can help them teach themselves. This workshop includes information that helps you understand how to set up both an environment and an attitude that will guide and promote your child's progress. You will learn how consistency with a routine can help your child feel more in control and gain independence.

Solve Your Baby's Sleep Problems
Are your child's sleeping difficulties making it hard to be at your best? Discussion in this workshop will include information about the importance of establishing good bedtime routines and helping your child eventually learn how to self-soothe. Learn about what to expect regarding children's sleep issues at different stages in development, and look forward to getting more sleep yourself!

It's Not Fair You're Ruining My Life! Effective Limit Setting
Discuss how to set limits and enforce rules in order to raise responsible and independent adolescents.

The Romance of Risk: Talking to Kids About Risky Behaviors and Making Wise Decisions
Learn how to keep the lines of communication open with your children. Discuss strategies to use when bringing up issues like smoking, drinking, sexual behavior, and drug use. Parents will develop techniques to foster problem-solving and critical thinking skills in their children and provide guidance through positive coaching.

Healthy Eating Habits for Children
What exactly is a nutritious diet and how do we get our children to eat it? Discussion will include information on fat, sugar, protein, fiber, herbs, and supplements in relation to children's health, along with some helpful strategies to avoid food battles with your child.

Ready, Set, Go: Preparing for Kindergarten
Learn about what to expect from kindergarten programs and what makes a child ready for the experience. Discussion in this workshop will include suggestions on how you can help your child prepare socially, emotionally, and academically for this transition.

Instructor Biographies


Stephanie Barry Agnew, BA, is the Coordinator of Parent Education at the new San Mateo Parents Place office.  She has an extensive background in Early Childhood Education with 20 years of teaching experience in Palo Alto area schools.  She was trained at Bing Nursery School while getting her degree at Stanford and has taught all preschool age groups.  She owned her own small school in Palo Alto for 5 years and worked as a parent educator for 10 years.   She is the parent of two daughters in their 20’s.

Elizabeth Eastman, LCSW, is a therapist in private practice in Palo Alto.  She also facilitates support groups and workshops at Parents Place and in the community.  Her practice is focused on supporting individuals and couples in their adjustment to parenthood, and in dealing with stress, depression, and anxiety.  She is a mother of twins.

Sue Dinwiddie, M.A., in Human Development, trains staffs and teaches parent education throughout the Bay Area and in New York City.  In addition to publishing two books on helping children learn social problem-solving skills, she has taught classes in human development through Stanford University, Pacific Oaks College and local community colleges and agencies.  Sue is a former Head Teacher at Bing Nursery School, Stanford University. Sue and her husband are the parents of two grown children.

Heidi Emberling, MA, has been working with parents of young children for 5 years, specializing in positive discipline, limit setting, sleeping and eating issues, potty learning, temperament, and socialization. She teaches parent-child baby and toddler classes, two-year old and twins classes. In addition she presents on a wide variety of topics in the larger Bay Area community. She has an eight-year old son and a five-year old daughter.  She has a Master's Degree from UC Berkeley and a second Master's degree in Early Childhood Education from San Francisco State University.

Julie Graham, Psy.D., is a licensed clinical psychologist whose practice focuses on supporting parents during times of transition in their family life cycle.  She enjoys supporting individuals and couples in making positive transitions to parenthood and has a particular interest in helping parents adjust to the many joys and challenges of pregnancy and the postpartum period.  Having completed a postdoctoral fellowship in college mental health, Dr. Graham also specializes in helping teens and their parents successfully navigate the pressures of high school and stay connected through the launching years.

Susan Stone Belton, Parent Coach and Educator, is a certified Special Education Teacher with over 35 years experience working with children and families. She has presented over 300 talks to Bay Area parent groups, focusing on communication and effective discipline for all ages. She has taught teenagers with emotional and behavioral problems, managed two crisis hotlines for parents and teens, operated home-based pre-schools, and taught Gymboree classes. She is also the mother of a 22 year old son, an 18 year old daughter, and a 17 year old step-daughter.

Martha Salazar, B.S., has over 10 years teaching experience and enjoys working with children and families in the community. She has received training in different areas of Early Childhood Education at UC Davis Extension, First 5 and Parents Place.  Martha also coordinates the First 5 Family Ambassador Program in Mountain View, helping families with children, 0 to 5 years old, receive services in the areas of childcare, health, child development, literacy and other community services.  She is the mother of a one year old son.

 

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